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In order to successfully pick up women, saying the right things is more imperative than being shameless and canny. The goal is to actually attract the women, which involves the heart more than physical appearance. Women are very intuitive and they can immediately see through you if you are just picking them up for a ride.

The goal is to not expose the goods but to expose your heart. This doesn’t mean you have to fall for every woman you’re attracted with in every bar or party. It is merely being a pick up artist, much like other artists, who have style and techniques must be inspired by a passion and love for the work while trying to capture the attention of the women.

Be sure of yourself. Words don't make you confident. This comes from what you have inside of you while you acknowledge the fact that you have only the best intentions to make a woman happy with what you have to offer them.

You already know that you will make any woman happy, so you have nothing to worry about. You know that you are actually doing her a favor. The right words will part from your lips once this is accepted.

It is not pompous at all to think you're doing her a favor. This is because of your history of pleasing women. You are open to the ideas of spending time with her, listening to what she tells you, whether it's at your place, at a party, or over a nice dinner where you act like a gentleman by treating her like a queen by holding open doors and pulling out her chair.

Self-assurance is the best way to build self-confidence. Women often feel more relaxed going out with a PUA because of their self-confidence. Women feel assured once they see how a PUA walks, talks, and treats people without being phony.

With confidence comes a perfect presentation. Have you ever attempted to sell a good or idea? If yes, then you know already that the approach will either make it work or make it flop.

The greatest PUA "sales" pitch is not based solely on the looks, but the validity to back it up. It must be supported by knowledge, as well. And most of all, it must be backed up by sincerity, personality, and an amazing sense of humor.